I've just changed my gumboots for waders - the level of bullshit keeps on rising!

You forgotten that we live in a democracy? People can post what they want without fear as long as they don't use swear words. Some people should not be on forums as they can't take it, so why are you complaining then? I post honest responses to subjects and are no way lies, or conspiracial in nature. Just that some people are just too thick to decipher the truth of something.

yes, if you make a false statement, bring up some false conspiracy theory, or start a poll that can, and probably will bring flack for something foolish that someone posts, you deserve to take the heat for it, this is real life, don't make a controversial statement and expect everyone to agree with you, if you can't take the heat, then don't post/make, those kinds statements, and if someone does not like what i posted, i don't care, it is all true,, but whatever you decide, have a nice day doing it ;-))

Only mentally weak people complain about rudeness. I have no time for soft people who cant accept criticism! Most rudness is not being rude...its justified. I've never known a time when people are so mentally weak to a few words. No wonder people have so many problems in coping in life today. Edited 01-Dec-22 06:25am

Thank goodness it is still rude to be rude! Personally I just ignore those comments. Sort of like hearing all that gutter talk in the movies -- I just block them out!

I don't think its any of your business what people communicate to others. Stop being a sook and grow a backbone! You cant make everyone agree all the time. People don't have to be nice to anyone and the reverse applies as well. Only boring people are nice all the time.Edited 30-Nov-22 16:25pm

I think we as adults need to do better with our writing... as its not setting a good example for kids growing up . Some don't bother to write good literally. It would make it easy on the eye for all of us concerned.

I think opinions are like bottoms, everyone has one! And I'm all for free speech (as it is becoming an endangered species) but in saying that, it costs nothing to be respectful, but then I'm a dinosaur who was taught right from wrong, not how to be offended by every single person's opinion and demand anyone who doesn't follow your narrative to be cancelled.

Its only the writer up above who wanted to stir up trouble on here. Since she wrote this with the intended deliberation to cause trouble and attack certain people. But too cowardly to mention peoples names.

Am I missing something? Im not aware of disrespectful or rude comments ever.

People that say you don't have a right to be rude...really make me laugh! Its as if they think-- they are never themselves rude. No one is a saint and i have no issues if someone wants to be a bit nasty as im very good at dealing with nastiness in others. Its whether you can take it that counts. Debating an issue isnt rudness. Swearing and calling people names is. But most people today seem so soft and especially those in their twilight years. I've also noticed this with customer service esp from the oldies. The younger ones seem a bit less sensitive for some reason and can take criticism better as they are still learning in life. Constructive criticism is not rudness. Some don't understand that meaning.

Disagree all you want, but we can still be nice about it!

Reactions to anyones' posts in a perception thing. We all come from different backgrounds, countries, languages and understanding of the English language etc. We could all interpret one persons few sentences, in many different backgrounds. Have I reacted too overly sensitive? Did I misunderstand their meaning of what they are saying? Were they trying to be funny? (& failed really), as 'humor' can often be misconstrued as rudeness or someone being mean. We also always have a choice how to react to someones posts, 1. ignore them, 2. report them, or 3. take them on, if you are brave enough & are certain they were actually being rude or mean or both. No-one has a 'right' to be rude to anyone of course. (these ppl are often what we call 'keyboard' warriors, who hide behind their computers, feeling big and important because they are anonymous, and can insult at will with little recourse (yes you know who you are). No-one also has the right to make fun of you or your opinion, it takes guts to put your opinion out here for all to see, so who's the bigger person them or you (think about it). Yes agree to disagree, if ppl cannot see your view point, that's their issue not yours. They are narrow minded and not likely to change their ways, just because you disagreed with them. So learn to pick up battles, sometimes it's best to actually not give them fuel to inflame the situation even more. I pick my battles. I'm 64, been on the 'Net since 1995, and seen all kinds of whack jobs trying to belittle, argue, egg ppl into arguments, why?? because they can - because we let them. Yes respect is always the goal in open forums, but unfortunately in these ever increasingly crazy times, when we really do not know what others are going through, I take a softer approach 'most of the time'. & just go ahhhh cannot be farked arguing my point lol BUT LOOK OUT TO ANYONE THAT PISSES ME OFF & HAV CAUGHT ME ON A BAD!!!!! LOL Take care Gigi M xx Edited 01-Nov-22 19:06pm

If you can’t comment nicely or constructively, don’t bother commenting at all!

No

As you get older you become more honest about your feelings.I have no problems with honest criticism whether giving it or taking it. The problem these days there is so much "bullshit" out there that one needs to wear gumboots all the time.

No

Nothing like a laugh. Water off the ducks back as they say.

I don't really care for someones hurt feelings. Ive got more important things to think about. People i don't know mean nothing to me.. Its not my concern how people feel or react.

yes, if you make an untrue statement, accusation etc, you deserve to take the flack for it, end of story, stop trying to start problems, if you or anyone else does not like a conversation then just pass it by, some folks like to socialize on this site, if you do not like the subject, don't involve yourself with it, and yes, if you say something to me i disagree with, i will let you know, if it proves to be a wrong statement from me i will apologize, but don't throw shade on folks because of your beliefs etc, that is wrong,,,

As someone once said, grow a thick one and toughen up. Too many weak cowards in society today. You will get worse offline than online. If you cant cope with a few nasty COMMENTS then you have got no hope of dealing with the outside world. Even kids cope better than some Adults. Maybe they are the ones who really never grew up in the first place.

Ive just been reading and responding to that fake Gigi aka US. Shes nuts! She's been posting her nasty vitriol all over her forum. She claims people are stalking her on here. Now how do you do that on a harmless forum/survey site? She wont mention names who she claims are stalking her. She cant back up anything she says no doubt. Shes been on here for probably nearly 24 hours. She also claims she's got a sick husband to care for, but she can still find many hours to surf rewardia apparently. How would anyone be able to do that? She even COMMENTS on people that dont care for her opinion or want to get involved with her stupid... COMMENTS. She's been harrassing others and not just today. Shes sucking up to others on here at times. She harrased me on an old daily poll of mine a few hours ago. She messaged me and she's lost the plot. Becareful with her as she definitely is a trouble maker. She just cant shut up once she starts. I have to tell others what she does. Shes probably not right in the head and might be doing drugs. Strange!

Need to differentiate rude from opinion sometimes we think it's rude when we disagree with it

This site is actually quite refined compared to some others I visit.

I haven't seen any rude comments, and the ones making fun are pretty well deserved. Insults would be a different matter. Why are we all such crybabies these days? For goodness sake, square your shoulders and get resilient. It is only an opinion after all.

US is Gigi. She keeps changing her fake name. Once it was Gaylene. Shes not well. I think shes got syphilitic dementia of the brain. Shes sooooo boring!

Not being rude is an adult trait. This is an adult space. No more comment.

Rewardia is fun to play the games, and everyone needs to be relaxed and good to each other.

They don't have the right and most of us do avoid doing that. This is still social mediaand the usual rules apply.

Rude comments are not a survey question therefore there should be an interest in what the personal opinions are but there should be no comments that could hurt or upset the writer. I have taught my children to look listen and learn not to make quick judgements on anything written.

We all have opinions and they should be respected. Rude comments are not acceptable.

For me we have to respect what others opinion nobody's perfect in this world and we are brothers &sisters because we are all children of God..

With all due respect, these questions have so evident answers. Like of course NO and of course YES.

Its not the rude people who are the problem really, even tho they annoy me, its the complainers who bore the crap out of me. Do yourself all a favour and get a life! If you aren't the target of abuse then you should not comment at all on what others say. There is no worse person than someone who sticks their nose into someone elses business. They are worse than any troll or abuser on here. You don't deserve to use these forums because its being nasty about what others do and doesn't concern you. And you wonder why you get abused yourself? You don't interfere unless it is your problem. I have defended some on here because i didn't agree with what that person said, but im only one person, not a group of people. Collectively abusing a select few people on a website is bullying and its wrong. It makes you no better than the person doing the trolling. So those who write about others doin the trolling are doing exactly that to them. The same thing, its definitely no difference. Practice what you preach!..Edited 25-Sep-22 19:11pm

It's just a name on a screen with a different point of view most of the time. I've never seen a user outright personally attacking anyone on here, even if they expressed themselves in a manner that was "not very nice". Nothing worth losing sleep over. There are far worse things going on in the world.

Some people post just such outright rubbish that you have to be critical of them.

No

People's opinions can be hurtful, however, if someone don't like the comment hit the skip button and move on

Stick and stones will break my bones, but my names will never hurt me; An old saying from my school days. Lol It makes perfect sense. If you let people get to you then you are showing your weak side.

respect goes a long way. We should all be able to have our say ,but that dosn't mean being rude or nasty.

No absolutely not, that’s why I don’t comment much anymore as someone left myself a message

Personally, I cannot tolerate rude comments to people's personal opinions on rewardia daily discussions. sometimes I think if people are going to use rude language and comment it's best they keep it to themselves. Everyone is an individual and we all have different ideas/opinions/living in a multicultural society, so nobody is perfect and everyone has the right to verbally communicate and express their opinion and we done have a choice to agree or disagree.

We all should have respect for other people's opinions even if we don't agree on what the other person says . we are all different.

Depends, what if they’re saying something incredibly offensive? In general, no.

No

As my Mum used to say “If you can’t say anything good or nice about something keep your mouth closed” …

Define what you consider rude. Respect is earned not granted. If someone has a ridiculous opinion they deserve ridicule. Lets face it some opinions are illegal, immoral, unethical and downright wrong. I will not respect such opinions. Having an opinion that the Earth is flat or humans were alive alongside dinosaurs will not get my respect just for starter examples. I believe most people here would not respect some ones opinion that say one race is superior to another. A mantra I live with is when arguing with an idiot make sure the other person isn't doing the same.

people have the right to speak there mind but not if that comment disrepects the other person value on this sight

No! But I don’t like people making fun of different cultures or what food we eat here in the western side ! We are who we are

It’s Ok to poke fun at a comment or opinion or to be cheeky about the grammar and spelling but do not extend it to the person who made it.

No one needs yo be rude! People have a right to voice their own opinion

NO rudeness, totally uncalled for and very disrespectful. EVERY one has a right to his or her opinion whether we agree with it or not

No there has been one who pushes her views all the time she is rude and upsetting

Respect yes, rudeness no, but if you post your opinion on any subject you leave yourself open to ALL comments. If you don't want to see such comments it is best not to post opinions I guess.

Agree if you can't say anything nice don't comment. Some people go over the top unfortunately.

I really dont give a stuff who is offended by my comments. I don't know anyone here in real life...so i wont sob over it. What i wont stand for are liars...and weak minds-- i can not tolerate. Most people on here are just complainers and stupid. You cant please police opinions or their thoughts. There is no CRIME against being RUDE. If people are rude to me, i deal with it, but im not sucking up peoples backsides...trying to get support or sympathy, like that idiot who wrote this forum. She only wrote this discussion... because shes a COWARD and CANNOT HANDLE the TRUTH about HERSELF. People on here are showing how weak they are by complaining. I think they have mental health issues like the writer above. If you cant deal with a bit of abuse on a website...then how can you deal with it in real life? Omg. Edited 25-Sep-22 15:56pm

Rude comments to peoples personal opinions is going too far - people can say their opinion provided it doesn't hurt others e.g rewardia's points system

Yes it certainly is just not right in having any fun.Edited 25-Sep-22 15:25pm

should be monitored and rude abusive comments deleted.

I thought we had our very own "thought police" on Rewardia or should that be PC police. Surely you can disagree but not phrase it in such a way that if gives offence to those reading your remarks.

Great discussion! well done for raising

NO

No I don't think members should be allowed to get away by poking fun at other peoples created content eg:polls,trivia and discussions and while I agree it's ok to have an opinion but it's not ok to be an asshole about it.

If you can't say anything in a way that respects other's opinions then don't say anything

As long as it's not outright putting someone down...

Respect. Who said "I disagree with what you say but will fight to the death for your right to say it". The only ones who should not be shown respect are those who preach harm to others. Pooing comes to mind!

i enjoy give my opinions and other things

Make it a rule that if you include rude or disparaging remarks you must also provide your full name. See how cavalier they are with their comments then. They're all just cowardly and small minded, why would you care or listen to people of such low intelligence?

These people probably are a few members of society that are seeking attention or think this time of behavior is humorous. They obviously don't know the meaning of respect, and I think they should be banned from the site! Freedom of speech can be used in much better ways. More than likely, they belong to the society of people who are mentally disturbed. Yes, I would go this far because of how horrible people are acting everywhere! Hand holding isn't going to cut it anymore. Ramifications for bad behavior is the order of the day. I blame it all on how they have been raised and what they've been taught or not been taught. Finding excuses isn't working!

Some people should just shut up and keep out of others arguments. Thats what causes wars. If someone is rude to you, then you fight back or ignore them, but you never squeal...because that is weak and makes everything worse. That is also bullying as you get others involved in your fights.

of course there should be respect for answers and opinions shared, but equally members should never post rude or hurtful comments that may cause distress to other members. I am really sad that this situation has arisen, just as it distresses me to see notices in doctors offices, path labs etc stating that bad language and bad behaviour will not be tolerated. Why are some people so angry that they feel entitled to express their hurtful opinions on public platforms? Whatever has happened to 'common courtesy' and 'treat others as you like to be treated'?

It’s only a opinion of a stranger. Who knows the answer to that.

Say what you mean but don't be mean

Im glad there were some smart people on here who agree with me about this, thks. I agree that freedom of comments should never be supressed no matter What. That is why alot of people attack trump for his opinions, mostly the left, sometimes you have no choice but be rude to those who never get or try to understand your point of view. Thank goodness we don't all think alike. The worlds not perfect and humans never were.

I quite often say I have to disagree but I don't put the person down or say they are stupid for thinking that as every one has the right to have their own opinion. Whether some one is right or wrong doesn't matter and it is just as opinion there is no need to get upset or hurt by what some one else has said on here. We are a community and we should respect others and after all we have the freedom to say things good or bad. Just because I don't always agree doesn't mean I am going to be nasty about it. I am very opinionated at times I am sure of it. I am truely sorry if I have upset or hurt any one seriously not my intention and yes I have had some rudeness on here I didn't think was granted but I don't care as I have gotten over it. Some people can be too sensitive and typing can certainly be construed the wrong way. I have misread text before with my husband when we were dating and was told no that is not what I meant to say so it can be done.

Yes I do think they have the right to be rude, doesn't mean I agree with them. Freedom of speech for all.

Sometimes I feel like correcting punctuation but I restrain myself.

I have not noticed any of these comments. Either that or I ignore them

Please use good/nice manners or refrain from commenting.

I prefer for people to show respect for others It’s easy to be a troll/ rude person safe behind ur keyboard My number one dislike rudeness, there’s just no need for it…..

NO WAY I SAY

Do not be rude!

I think Aretha has it right, r e s p e c t , just a little bit

the thing that annoys me the most is when players whine about how they should have gotten more points, Come on people, it's a free game site, sure it's fun to earn points to redeem for prizes, but there's no reason to complain about it. I personally have never seen anyone make fun of anyone else, or make rude comments , but I haven't been playing on Rewardia for very long.

If comments are rude dont read them

No place is an excuse to be rude. It is disrespecful and unnecessary.

Don't take these comments seriously build a bridge cross over move on if need be glad that you are not friends with these people . There are more serious things in life than attention seekers. Don't dwell on other peoples hang ups always taught to ignore these people and know that I do'nt need to come to their level.

Reward is not a place to be rude.It is a sight to enjoy games

I absolutely agree with with Lynn A on this one. Even on F/b, people are so rude when a joke is shared in a Forum. If you don't like the comments then scroll past it. There is no reason why you have to be rude or offend people personally when they give their opinion.

It's not compulsory to answer so y be rude?

Rudeness is never a good answer. However some seem to get upset about things that to me are meant to be taken as a joke/tongue in cheek. To get as many opinions as possible on any topic should enhance one's own understanding of others

Of course not, most of it is tongue in cheek mostly, for those that are down right rude should have their membership cancelled.

What is rudness? An opinion is not being rude. Lying is being rude. Spreading false information is rude . Calling someone names is rude. Some of you are beyond stupid and think an opinion is being rude. You don't like it then... just dont come on these forums. You are being weak and can't handle a opinion. I suppose you think gigi is being truthful? No, she is not. She attacks others , as she did to one lady some weeks ago, and shes been bitching at others on other forums of late. Edited 25-Sep-22 11:43am

Everyone deserves to be treated with respect. Hopefully we all can do this.

All people are doing are giving their opinions and it's never a right idea to be rude. Had same problem at work, this person laughed at me and told me I was stupid. Turned out I was right after all but now I don't really like to give my opinion in case it happens again. Everyone has the right to their opinion without having to worry about being called names. It's called an opinion not a fact.

there should always be respect for each and everyone but we all know there are certain people out there that just have to be nasty and try to hurt other people just for kicks even if they dont know them

I think Gigi aka US...became upset...because i recently criticised her poor writing skills and she didn't like it. Hence her complaints today; I thought these discussions were meant to be about subjects other than the one individual writer of the day? They seem to become more about the personal life of the writer and not a topic that we can all relate to. Less personal discussion or polls would be nice. Some people are writing very pathetic discussions and polls these days, and its mostly about themselves and not the rest of us. When i submitted discussions or polls it wasn't about me...it was aways about a topic that was universal. Thats why i wrote interesting toipcs. It should not be about you, as you are the writer, it should be something that affects many people. That is what most forum topics are based on. Go check other sites out and see;

As with Racism, this is a multi-lane highway. What offends one may not offend another. I don't think anyone actually goes out of their way to be rude but, at the same time, if one person has the Right to express their opinion about an issue then those with opposite opinions have the same Right to express them. To say they can't is Censorship, the Denial of Freedom of Speech Isn't this the very issue for which China, Russia and other dictator-style regimes are so loudly condemned for. In China and Russia you are not allowed to criticise the Government, the President or any of their policies. Is that what we want in our countries? I don't think so. If you criticise someone they may just decide that you are being rude, others may adopt an Adult attitude and accept your criticism as you exercising your Right to the Freedom of Speech and Expression. At the same time I don't think we should call others ugly names, just always challenge their sometimes ugly opinions. Recently we had one contributor referring to someone who was not, so far was we know, a Rewardia member. She referred to someone she did not know as "A Dill", "An Idiot" and did so because they simply expressed their opinion. That was unnecessary rudeness.

This is the internet what do you honestly expect?

No I don’t think they have a right at all and it’s disgusting behaviour from some so called grown adults..! Everyone is entitled to an opinion but just because you don’t agree with that person’s opinion there is no need to attack them or their families. The majority of people I find on here thought to be really lovely and lots of times very helpful with there comments :-)