You poor love. I've never heard of such a state. I hope you have others who can understand your plight and explain to these cruel and ignorant fools the reality of you and your husband's problems.

That's great Debra, hopefully this neighbour will find some kindness in her heart

DOES ANYONE ELSE SENSE THAT THIS WOMAN IS GASLIGHTING HER OWN HUBBY? TROLLING US ALL FOR SYMPATHY? MUNCHAUSEN SYNDROME HERE FOR SURE!!

I think I have been in touch of something

That's absolutely ridiculous and so heart breaking hearing things like this half of my family members don't believe me with my serious medical conditions then they had thr ordacity to say I was a attention seeker I send positive thoughts and prayers to you

Spend time with your husband as it seems like time is precious, every one else can wait for when your ready

One should always understand that a man should always be the first priority because he runs the family and if he ain't around ,the family can not be complete

To hell with the mail people's they don't know poop and you should probably not concern your self with much past helping your man get better he needs you

Concentrate on your husband for now, deal with other things later

I don't know which country you live in but I have never heard of a medical delivery. You should be able to lodge a complaint if you aren't receiving a medical delivery that your doctor requested. I'm sorry but it sounds rather odd. I can understand mail not being delivered if you have a dog but what does it matter if your husband is laying in front of the letter box or not? They are being paid to deliver a medical something or other to you so they should be doing what they are being paid for.

Don’t understand what is being said here. Get a lock on your letterbox if people are stealing your mail.

I would suggest that you create as big a "stink" as you can handle with the peoples boss, the news, radio and TV. With all yhe yhings you have to worry about I'm sure this will be a tremendous strain, but it's pretty much all you can do. The number one priority, your husband, is getting help for now. Can you not appeal to the facility, the local health council, social services, the police, a member of government (municipal, regional, provincial, or national, anyone? Quite often you can ask for help from a local union or workers organization.More often than not, they have a committee or some volunteers that are trained to help in these predicaments. Don't give up hope. You're doing a tremendous job right now, but as they say, more hands lighten the load. Good luck!

I have no idea what this "medical mail" thing means. But clearly your husband is very sick. Who cares what people are saying? And why would neighbours be jealous? Me no understand.

Concentrate on your husband Forget the others

Contact the media. They may put your story on the news or the local paper maybe after people see the full story , they may feel ashamed, if they don't they should . I am so sorry you have so much on your plate to deal with .Edited 23-Nov-24 15:41pm

Debra I mentioned stem cell stuff before. I didn't want to sound to much like I was advertising. is why I limited it to x39 on explanation. though I had to think will it work. So I had to test. Sure it did. Also stuff about a gun though. So I just started watching 1 further down the page. the first thing she was talking about is how it imediately started repairing her vision. It could well be something beneficial to him. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N3NEyYMHmC4 Edited 23-Nov-24 15:36pm

Reads and sounds like you live in an area with lots of KARENS. Ignore them.Edited 23-Nov-24 20:34pm

Pick your battles.If the mail delivery is important go as far as you can to complain and keep going higher until you get some satisfaction. Don't even try to understand why others say and do things to hurt, this is wasted energy.

It sounds to me they are jealous of you both .I would ignore them I assume you may have other friends or relatives .I don't know what medical mail is .Do you live in a retirement village ??.You have a lot to worry about with your husband being so unwell..Do you have a daughter or son who can help.You must ignore these neighbours they are ignorant trouble makers '

Is there an Ombudsman that you can report it to? What about the AMA, doctors' board? This is outrageous and you need someone on your side to fight this for you. This is an awful situation for you and I just hope that you can find someone to support you.

OMG, have you called the police?

Sorry about this story Debra! But fortunately, my experience with the neighbours is completely different. I have lived here for a long time with the same neighbours and they have always been very friendly, and helpful! I can't even imagine how to live with such people who put you into more trouble when you and your husband go through enough of it?

Get all your mail redirected to a post box or your friends address or something. then your Neibours won't be able to find the mail. Find a better way for your husband to heal in addition to what he is already doing. I am trying stem cell stuff at the moment. Something like that might be what he needs? it's hard to know if it really works? search "x39" on youtube. Edited 23-Nov-24 14:23pm

I have no words...

I'd be putting notes through their mailboxes informing them of the REAL issues. Good luck and health to you both.

Interference with people’s mail is a criminal offence! Have them charged!

Debra D, as per your comment on the bottom of your post - "you are now getting a new carrier, she has no problems with your mail delivery" the previous non delivery of parcels is illegal. I have no idea why or what your neighbours are jealous of ?

Contact your postal delivery also the police because no one is allowed to interfere with your mail. I don't understand why the neighbours are jealous. Just ignore them and concentrate on yourself and your husbands needs.

Peter has left his wife Michael

They must have taken it away for a reason and why would the neighbours be jealous? If this is some thing you both truly need then fight for it and get it back. Fill the correct paper work and resubmit them. If I was your neighbour I certainly wouldn't be jealous nor would I make fun of any one in such a bad way if ever. Sounds like you either need to move and find better neighbours or tell your neighbours to get a life and leave you in peace to look after your husband as he obviously sounds like he needs.Edited 23-Nov-24 12:30pm

call australia post and police

They are not jealous. They are unheedingly malicious. You do not have to say anything. This sounds like office gossip, not neighbours.

So sorry but an old english saying comes to mind "Silence is the best source for fools"

just shut the idiots out

So terribly sorry to hear this! Many people in good health have absolutely no idea what others go through! Not every disease “Carrie’s a huge sign around saying IM TERRIBLY SICK”! I can go out occasionally and walk and say hi to neighbors, although I have had open heart surgery, had my Aortic valve replaced, have Diabetes, chronic Lymphocytic Leukemia, COPD, Chronic Kidney Disease, as well as heart disease, and my pancreas is atrophied, so, at times, because I don’t have a cast, or openly wear bandages or walk with crutches, some people give me nasty looks when I climb out of my truck at the store or Walmart! In many cases, if it isn’t effecting them, they do not care! God Bless and Watch over You and Yours!

I am very sorry for all of your troubles. I'm sorry I have no insight for you as to what to do. We'll keep you and yours in our thoughts and prayers

People are nasty and cruel.

I would talk to the authorities of the P.O. and the medical companies to try to rectify it.

Love and prayers for you and your husband. Truly no one understands what you and your hubby are going through unless they have been through it themselves. There are support groups for stroke survivors as well as cancer sufferers and their families. I would suggest reaching out to them. "Can Assist" is a great support and may be able to offer some helpful advice and a sympathetic ear. As others have said speak to your pharmacy and g.p about home delivery,e - scripts( sent straight to pharmacy)for medication. Finally ,I know it's hard but just ignore the gossip( idle hands) and try to focus on the people who truly care for you both. Best wishes . Danielle

As you said " Pray for this evil generation". The Lord knows who they are. God bless you & this situation.

I hope all goes well for your husband and you Debra. I don’t know what country you are in. I have had many good dealings with Australia Post everywhere but in Geelong Victoria, where they try hard to just be a waste of time, lazy, incompetent, uncaring and thick. The reviews and complaints you see on one Armstrong Creek location should set alarm bells ringing in upper management, but it doesn’t, they still provide the same crappy service to their customers.

I agree with bugalugs, the pharmacies here will deliver medication as well, we also have nurses / care plans for care in your home

Sorry Debra people love being cruel best wishes to you and your husband

She can't even write clearly!😂

I'm not understanding who is denying the medicine being delivered. Is it the post office, people where you live who distribute mail, or bureaucrats who are denying the need? A lot of pharmacies will deliver medications and then you don't need to have it mailed.

Contact the relevant ombudsman...They will soon be caring very much!

Comfort care should be provided and where’s family support

Nasty people!!! So sorry.

its very sad i hope they realise the pain they are causing you

If the mail System in the USA is allowed to deny people Mail Deliveries then, like so much in the self-proclaimed "Land of the Free", something is horribly wrong and sick with the USA. Fortunately here in Australia, once mail has been scanned for possible illegal substances, weapons, bombs etc. then Australia Post is required, By Law, to Deliver all Mail. In the event spmething suspicious is found then Australia Post alerts the Australian Federal Police and/or other Police Forces for them to investigate. For the US Postal Service to Deny US citizens and other US residents for no legitimate reason means that the US Postal Service is committing a Crime.

This is so heartbreaking to hear but please stay strong and I believe in the higher powers and have faith that you will get through this 🙏. Stay strong and be a support for your husband and forget about them who truly are irrelevant and doesn't at all matter.

This site and some of the people who use it are getting more ridiculous every year.😏

Just do the best you can for your husband and yourself those people should be reported to the police its not right how they have treared you can you get help from a family member good luck I hpoe all goes well for you my thoughs are with you God bless you

Don’t worry about other people so ,take care yourself ,just be kind with others

people can really suck, sorry to hear of your troubles but i can only say look after your hubby to the best of your ability , and try and derive some strength from the ignorance of your neighbors,

NO COMMENT.

I've never heard of a mail service holding up someone's mail, not intentionally so. I thought the USA was a first world country, not a backwater? I think her story somehow stinks, and as I wrote previously, she's prob making all this BS up.

With that long list your husband is actually a HERO for fighting so hard to be here with everyone. Only the small minded and ignorant start and believe in gossip. Depending on how private you like your lives, you could start a give a little page for him or get a story done by local press thus making his situation official. It might open a few minds and will definitely bring out the more empathetic and sympathetic people to surround you and give you support.

Even if there were some truth to this story, and I really have my doubts, there are actually private mail boxes that can be rented, offered by the mail company. A fee has to be paid but at least no one can access the mail. They give you a key for the private box, and it's located at the post office or mail office in your locality.

Oh my so much on your plate to handle. God bless and keep you both!

Wow. The 'so called' days of being a Neanderthal maybe over, however if my loved ones were in a dependable state like that and 'people' were causing harm either by lies or gossip or slander. Id be bringing the pain. We all have enough shit going on in our lives without others putting in their bullshit

Sorry to hear of the difficulties you are having. If the mail carriers are not doing their job, i.e. delivering the mail only, then report it to their superiors. If the neighbours are gossiping, IGNORE them. Your most valuable time and focus is to help your husband as best as you can. Try to get some respite for yourself to give you a break. Ask your doctor about it. Take care and best wishes.

In Australia and other places in the world I am sure, you can be fined for interfering with other people’s mail. I would be getting in contact with the manager of the mail delivery and see if things can be sorted out that way. There are aged care services that can act as advocates for you and your husband. There is also the option of talking to an ombudsman. If all else fails, there is an option of taking your plight to a trusted news source and hope you can get a resolution that way. It would be a good idea to get a copy of your husband’s medical mail sent to your email address if you have one.

My thoughts are with u

Judging by your so called husband's health condition, if it's all true? He prob should not be alive, given his so called illnesses. Your story seems a bit far out to me! I don't see how he could survive all this, along with all those conditions you describe? 3 different cancers, strokes, arthritis? heart problems? I would not be surprised if you're making all or some of this up. I know that there are people in the world like you, and it's called severe mental illness. You might be the person who needs help badly, not so your so called husband, if he's real at all? Some people responding to your reply's are dumb enough to just believe anything you say. Omg! Why would anyone take medical mail? This sounds like a joke! I think your bullshiting Debra D. None of what you say really makes much sense. Lol Edited 23-Nov-24 07:32am

My thoughts and prayers are with you both.

You already raised a similar complaint weeks ago about your husband. What are we sup to do? Keep offering advice? I think you need the help, and go see a shrink, becs I think you are loosing the plot somewhat. Rewardia should not be used for solving others problems all the time. I think your a bit unhinged. You obviously don't have much in the way of family and friends... or you would not continue to use this platform to whinge about your problems on here. Why does rewardia keep posting such rubbish? So boring!Edited 23-Nov-24 07:01am

Having problems understanding what the issue is, but hope you can get it sorted and also look after yourself. Get help if you need it from what ever source you can. Take care

You should go to the local post office and complain about the carriers and if that does not work Get a hold of your city officials or even state Congress person and ask for help and the Postmaster General of the USA There are legal things to do also contact your local elder services for help as they have all sorts of ability to contact the right people and inform the Postal Service of your husband's situation. They can be taken to court for this and even fired. If it is neighbors they too can be sued as they are jeopardizing your husbands health and well being and your home and peace of mind.

This seems like a horrible dilemma, having been an aged care nurse and community co ordinator in NZ, their are health services available, ie age concern, district health services, be pro active yourself or reach out for support through your GP, all the best. You don’t mention family!Edited 23-Nov-24 06:32am

This is so cruel and they need to become more informed about situations before they start judging.

TY sherrydp

I HOPE YOUR HUSBAND BETTER AND THESE NEIGHBORS SHOULD MIND THEIR OWN B.S. WHAT GO AROUND COME AROUND IS THEIR REWARD

It is not clear to me what the problem is here. There are things laying down in front of the mailbox? what are you taking about? As for the prayers, yours or asking others to pray stop that now it is a big waste of time and effort. Nothing every comes of that and whay should your prayers be answered? are you special? No, but you are to your family as am I believe it or not. How long, how many prayers have you and others made? Why should 'god' answer your prayers? Do you know there are millions with a variety of issues, wars, staving and sick children, yet you think your prayers should be answered! They aren't being answered becasue there is no one listening. Put your energy in to helping your husband and not this needless useless practice.

My gosh where do you live? I know there are a lot of evil people out there this is disgusting, can you and your husband move into a better neighborhood? This is the worst; your Neighbours must be mentally ill. Can't your family and friends help. There are some good people out there. Hopefully that's your family and friends.

All I know those need to get a life and that's most disturbingly wrong karma is what they are getting really

I THINK YOU ARE FABRICATING THIS WHOLE SCENARIO AND SUGGEST IT IS YOU GASLIGHTING YOUR HUBBY RE THE MISSING MAIL. YOU OBVIOUSLY DON'T WANT THIS SICK HUBBY AROUND ANY MORE! PRAYERS TO YOUR HUSBAND. SHAME ON YOU.

Seems weird that they are that way. Why do they want to bully you so much

prayer's to your husband and hope all goes well and only wish the best for you both, sad what people are doing..

damn

People should not tell lies, it hurts people. You know the tongue is mightier than the sword.

Reward for fighting hard is peace. Peace at any cost

Wishing you and your husband all the best and so sorry to hear you are having all these other hassles with your mail delivery it is wrong on all levels.

People who do evil to others will keep what they sew. Stay in peace. God bless!

Hope all goes well for you in the future

Sorry to hear of your plight and hope that you do have even a few helpful and compassionate people in your life to help you through all of this. 🙏

Talk to a lawyer. You need help beyond our knowledge and a lawyer may just get the required actions AND apologies from all (horrible) people involved. I'm truly sorry for everything you and your husband are going through. I pray all works out well for you both.

Sad.

I sincerely wish you can find someone to help you sort out the issues soon. It's not right for these people to cause you and your husband more stress.

Hi Debra D. Sorry to read your husband is suffering from major health issues at this point in his life. IF the local the local nursing home has a social worker, THEN get in contact with the local nursing home social worker! IF your husband is a veteran, THEN get in contact with a government program or non-government program that assistance veterans that are caught in a catch22 situation due to bureaucracy issues!

Sorry Debra for your husband being sick, but I don't understand the rest of this one, so have no idea what your problem is...and can offer you nothing that is of any help...

Is there a local rag these inconsiderate bastards all read? If so, post this message you just made to us in aa 'Letters to ther Editor' section of the rag and eMail this letter to the local TV news network they all watch. In this case the media are your friends and even if they believe it to be fake news, they may come to you to apologize and it is sure to reach the ears of the USPS folks. What would I do? I am an author and a writer and long ago I learned to grow a thick skin or I'd have gone baka nuts trying to deal w/ my readers and followers since I invite honest positive or negative criticisms of my fanfictions I write and share online and have done so since 1999. Oh yes, whoever your MediCare providers are need to be told about the USPS cutting off your medical deliveries which may be a felony or at least a misdemeanor. I would also mail this letter to our new soon to be sworn in president Trumpy because a new broom almost always sweeps clean! For most of the parasites and freeloaders costing us money they do not need, the joyride is almost over! Good luck Debra. If I can help you in any way possible, you can reach me at thekeiman0@gmail.com

people are just into them self's now it is very sad, but there are some good ones out there still!!