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Is there such a thing as right person wrong time?
juliet s21-Jun-22
Many people claim that they meet the "right" person at the wrong time. However, if this person is indeed your true soulmate, is there such a thing as a wrong time to meet them? If they are the one, then shouldn't any time be perfect?
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  • john v 551148
    marilyn monroe passed before my time
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    • Nikki C 84850
      Nope
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      • Paul W 383502
        Maybe?
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        • Woofers
          Que sera sera!!
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          • lulu
            Isn't there a song , born to late for you to love me?
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            • mary c
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              • kim s 892086
                yes
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                • Leanne B 76015
                  Absolutely
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                  • Priscilla R 316016
                    Sometimes there is more than one right person in a lifetime. Just don't ever give up hope.
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                    • Ann D 328814
                      Once you meet your soul mate there is no such thing as wrong time. It happens when it is meant to.
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                      • leanne s 716734
                        yes rebound
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                        • Tupulua S
                          If you are single, once you meet the right person at any time, that is the right time, hook up enough time to really know each other, and marry that person, therefore there is no such thing as the wrong time, unless you are seeking other lovers to satisfy yourself, in which you are dancing with fire. But if you are involved in an accident and got yourself injured, you could say you were at the wrong place at the wrong time
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                          • Bugalugs
                            I'm not sure but most certainly there is the Wrong Time to Meet the Wrong Person! People meet what they think is "The Love of their Life" only he/she turns out to be a monster - Control Freaks, Sadists, Bullies - (it is not just Men who are these) Then there are those people, some would call Stupid, others Naive who meet - well sort of - someone on the Internet who convinces them they are their Newest BFF (Best Friend Forever), and then con them into, at first, giving them a small amount of money and gradually build this up to 100s, then 1000s then 10s of 1000s all the way up to Many Hundreds of Thousands - recently one Man complained that he had been conned out of Over $250,000.00! and then they disappear never to be seen or heard from again as they have moved on to another Stupid or Naive BFF!
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                            • Bung,
                              So sorry to hear this story some horrid people in this world.
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                          • Pat C 618241
                            I lost the "right one" to death but after 4 years widowhood "found" another right. Still right after 30 more years.
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                            • Gaza
                              We've been married for 48years after a whirlwind romance of two weeks, still very much in love, if not more.
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                              • Heather M 241632
                                That's lovely! I'm so happy for you both.
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                            • Jacqueline R 353303
                              Definitely- met my soulmate 27 years too late. Still have heartbreak as it wasn't to be. :(
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                              • roger l 315504
                                sorry, but current situations, relationships and circumstances somewhat interfere with your opportunities to even interact.
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                                • Mariaj
                                  I doubt it
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                                  • Daniel T 626103
                                    If they treat you like crap, it's probably the wrong person.
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                                    • Colin L 88398
                                      In answer to your last question NO way too many things can be against people and this destroys any chance that they may have.
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                                      • june s 789752
                                        Che sera sera
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                                        • Brietta 617888
                                          Yes
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                                          • matthew f 520557
                                            There is no time...
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                                            • Luna
                                              What about being born at the wrong time? :(
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                                              • Florence C 838397
                                                I think so.
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                                                • Don T 805693
                                                  No. It is just another way of saying wrong person.
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                                                  • Rose S 88496
                                                    Yes destiny sometimes has a mind of its own and throws a curve ball
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                                                    • Greg B 520364
                                                      When on your honeymoon
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                                                      • Maria B 89860
                                                        A very wise answer, in case the walls have ears.
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                                                    • Catalina
                                                      Don’t know. Wish I knew. Who knows? Perhaps people who experienced it...
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                                                      • Helen L 750218
                                                        Yes there is such a thing.
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                                                        • Dave P 857147
                                                          There was for me
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                                                          • Jania S
                                                            ONLY IN USA MOVIES. its either right or wrong, cant be both at same time in real life. turn off idiot box. please
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                                                            • Sonya F 68771
                                                              Maybe
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                                                              • Jenny L 591463
                                                                Yes and some relationships last the distance and many don't. My parents friends have been married for as long as they have and they got pregnant before they were old enough to even get married and she had an abortion. They married and went on to have 4 children 2 boys and 2 girls. They were meant to be together. Another couple adopted a girl because they had 3 boys and she left found her real parents who were still together (was forced to put her up for adoption) and went on and had other children. She doesn't speak to her adopted parents at all. Sad but it happens. So I believe in fate and things happen for a reason.
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                                                                • John B 89024
                                                                  Maria B. that happens a lot you are right.
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                                                                  • Christine M 323842
                                                                    Absolutely And sometimes you’ve gotta live the rest of your life with it.
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                                                                    • Sandra C 12043
                                                                      Yes, have known two couples who met again later in life and it was just at the right time for them. Sometimes road blocks are put in their way by others. Maybe they are caring for sick parents.Maybe they were too young.
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                                                                      • Michele K 467742
                                                                        Shrek got lucky....
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                                                                        • Maria B 89860
                                                                          The wrong time to my way of thinking would be if you were already settled as a family unit. Just think how much distress and disruption that would cause to the innocent ones caught up in the turmoil.
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                                                                          • Maureen G-Melb.Vic.
                                                                            I certainly believe that too. I don't think I could have ever had an affair with someone else's husband.
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                                                                            • Darla T
                                                                              If it is the wrong time, then could ANYONE BE the right person? And it may be to your benefit that it is the wrong time. So, wait for the right time and perhaps the right person will likely be looking for you....I hope!
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                                                                              • Linda C 890405
                                                                                I think there is a right person at the wrong time! Believe me I have found one and we have been married for 23 years. I never met him or saw him or even new anything about him. But we were meant to be together
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                                                                                • Lyn A.
                                                                                  yes there is such a thing. various reasons why it can't 'happen' due to timing
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                                                                                  • Christina C 466456
                                                                                    I don't believe in soulmates but I do believe in chemistry! There's plenty of good people out there if one particular person doesn't fit the circumstance. Just move on and don't worry about what ifs because life isn't a fairy tail for most people.
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                                                                                    • Igor A
                                                                                      99% probability it will eventually change to "Wrong person right time". Hormones paly their games in our cognition.
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                                                                                      • Elizabeth J 447888
                                                                                        I am thinking of Emmanuel Macron, French president. He was 15 when he met his wife, his school teacher who is 25 years older than him. It worked out. Yuk I say. Imagine marrying your school teacher.
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                                                                                        • kristian s 513441
                                                                                          Yes, I think timing is everything when meeting the right person at the wrong time is because it all about timing and the place to meet them.
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                                                                                          • Sheree T
                                                                                            Possibly there is, as you could be going through some difficulties at the time.
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                                                                                            • Carmel C 103964
                                                                                              Wrong place, wrong time and you wont get to go on and form a relationship that could have been absolutely amazing. 'Any time' is definitely not perfect time. Time and place can doom what could otherwise been the start of something good.
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                                                                                              • Karen S 841350
                                                                                                Yes, often it's all about timing
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                                                                                                • SueM2
                                                                                                  I believe you meet those you are meant to meet, for whatever reason.
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                                                                                                  • Amber 22
                                                                                                    I hope that the person would be nice have met so many people that where just not good people
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                                                                                                    • Robert A 853384
                                                                                                      I sgree, I have met woman that were right for me, but were seeing other peoople
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                                                                                                      • Peter T 100083
                                                                                                        Yes, twice if things were not how they were.
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                                                                                                        • allin
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                                                                                                          • Morenita
                                                                                                            Yup! Many of times for me. For example I had found the right person one time but wrong time he was going through a divorce. So I disappeared and actually found someone better.
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                                                                                                            • just me- NZ
                                                                                                              I believe right person ,right time.
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                                                                                                              • Tiffany L 690503
                                                                                                                No
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                                                                                                                • APB
                                                                                                                  Right for what would be my question
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                                                                                                                  • Imperia S
                                                                                                                    Yes there is right person wrong time due to Vietnam,
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                                                                                                                    • BLACK LIVES MATTER
                                                                                                                      I don't understand the question (because I have a (horrible) tendency to ignore theoretical considerations) - however, sex is definitely the answer!
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                                                                                                                      • Joy L 68767
                                                                                                                        so true :)
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                                                                                                                      • Luna
                                                                                                                        LOL Walter you're funny :)
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                                                                                                                    • Rhonda D 522615
                                                                                                                      You would think so.
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                                                                                                                      • Linda C
                                                                                                                        Depends on the circumstances. One can be attracted to a number of people over their lives. I do not believe in this romantic nonsense of a true soulmate. You can find someone with whom you are attracted to, who has similar interests as you etc. but that does not make them a soul mate. Everyone makes a decision which road to take. Sometimes it is the right road and others not. You cannot change the past, the future is not here yet and there is only today. Your decisions cannot alter the past but they can alter the future I guess for good or for bad.
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                                                                                                                        • Dianne W 795962
                                                                                                                          Yes, I met someone that is the "right" person for me but at the wrong time. We are just friends but I wish it was more than that.
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