When you're ready to get married, it takes a lot out of you in planning. One of the tasks is when you organise your wedding party with your close friends/family into the party. When you have the matron of honour or best man to help you in organising, are you expecting them to step up & spend so much money on you regardless if they can afford it or not. In my opinion, I strongly believe that it is so rude on the bride to be to ask for everything that she needs to be top $. A wedding is supposed to be from love with your family & friends & the actual day with your partner. Money shouldn't be your priority. It is not to go over board with everything & expect the matron of honour or best man to pay for all of it, so to keep you happy. This is wrong. What do you think?