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More than a dozen roses
Robyn Hephzibah H28-Jan-22
Someone who admires you sends more than a dozen red roses in a vase. Would you be willing to accept the advances or just the roses? Would you refuse it all?
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  • Carolyn7 P
    I would accept the flowers to say Thank You for thinking of me. If the person making the advances was a love interest, then yes, I would accept the advances. If not, I would find a nice way to say not interested.
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    • Wendy Q
      the roses okay but not advances if unwanted
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      • marni k
        If it was someone that i had my eye on for a while I would accept both otherwise i would take the roses and run.
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        • Pat C 618241
          We're not a very romantic bunch are we? I have received 1 flower before today but with the exorbitant cost of more than a dozen roses today, I'd rather be asked out for a coffee and a nice conversation.
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          • Paula J 395266
            I would accept the roses with thanks and goodbye. However I don't expect anyone to send me any flowers as I have enough flowers in my garden to fill a few vases each week.
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            • Joan M 663912
              Good to know who sent it first. Might be wrong address??
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              • saira
                i love dozen Roses
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                • diane c QLD
                  would love just one rose.
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                  • Pato Lo Duck
                    RTS unless it comes with a barrel of Whiskey..
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                    • Robert T 597718
                      most appreciative of any kindness
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                      • Imperia S
                        If someone likes me they don't need roses, just an honest chat about the subject will do me
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                        • Joe B 288252
                          Accept them if you like the sender and take it from there or accept them and respect the sender enough to let them know you appreciate the gesture but don’t want to go any further
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                          • adrienne H 312549
                            is it an advance or just a nice gesture - depends on the context
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                            • Jania S
                              Depends on who sent the roses, This kind of advance often ends in tragedy.... And accepting should only be if your recepricate the admiration.
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                              • gordy
                                Are we receiving them on valentine's day or is it just a random anonymous gesture. Do we know who the person is? Sounds like fun only if it is genuine anyway that person thinks highly of you and don't we give things a go and succeed or fail anyway.
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                                • John b 479999
                                  Accept
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                                  • Christina C 466456
                                    I'd accept them if from my partner, otherwise I'd turn them away and tell them they're barking up the wrong tree.
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                                    • just me- NZ
                                      I would love it !! Bit of fun in this boring Covid world. Send away ! lol
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                                      • Pato Lo Duck
                                        What are you going to do with all the vases?
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                                      • just me- NZPato Lo Duck
                                        Very good question. Maybe donate to charity ?
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                                      • Pato Lo Duckjust me- NZ
                                        So the givee , would then be the giver, and possibly have to buy a compost bin to ethically dispose of all those roses..
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                                      • just me- NZPato Lo Duck
                                        And I would give a few petals to my rabbit and then dig the rest of the petals into the garden to give back to the earth where they came from :) awwwwww
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                                      • Pato Lo Duckjust me- NZ
                                        Lucky rabbit.. Is he vaccinated.?
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                                      • just me- NZPato Lo Duck
                                        lol nope, naughty rabbit.
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                                      • Pato Lo Duckjust me- NZ
                                        Better buy him a mask.. and a phone to scan the QR codes.. Also some fly and mosquito repellent.. They can catch other things as well.. All the rabbits here died last year from calicivirus. ( spread by flies getting around their eyes)
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                                      • just me- NZjust me- NZ
                                        she doesnt leave her cage too mingle though, so she should be safe :)
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                                      • Pato Lo Duckjust me- NZ
                                        She doesn’t have to, mixo and calici are spread by mosquitos and flies, respectively, if it gets released in your area you will have a problem. I believe vaccines are available for both, you should talk to your vet about it.
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                                      • just me- NZPato Lo Duck
                                        she lives in NZ and not aware of that here, where are you from?
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                                      • Pato Lo Duckjust me- NZ
                                        Vic Aust, Mixo and calici are rabbit keepers worst nightmares around here
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                                      • just me- NZPato Lo Duck
                                        oh really? I will definately keep a watch out for it. Thank you.
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                                      • APBjust me- NZ
                                        My kids had rabbits and guinea pigs when they were young...in NSW....all the rabbits died in under a month....the other guys had a long and happy life....
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                                    • William P 679064
                                      Depends on who sent them!
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                                      • leolassy
                                        what advances? can't giving someone roses just be a simple gesture of love? Everyone should send everyone flowers just because... it would make more people smile!
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                                        • Graham I
                                          ......personally would prefer Roses chocolates, preferably a big box!! :-)
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                                          • mary c
                                            yes please!
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                                          • APBmary c
                                            I've told Graham again and again..don't talk about chocolates when Mary is listening
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                                          • Graham IAPB
                                            Lol
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                                          • mary cAPB
                                            Hush mr A..i was just about to impart my delivery address details to Graham in case he had a surplus of those precious chocccccs.
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                                        • Carolina Z
                                          Advances ? Never! I'd tell him to look for a Cheaper catch to give the roses to.
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                                          • Gaza
                                            I'm a bloke and don't get roses, but I give them.
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                                            • mary c
                                              awwws how sweet :)
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                                          • Ruth v
                                            I would definately keep the roses. Beautiful.
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                                            • Paul J 94868
                                              That's a tough one...It all sounds very flattering...I'll have to think about it...
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                                              • Susan D 669698
                                                There are many reasons for beautiful scenery of roses ??but it depends if you want or deserve it ????
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                                                • Sonya F 68771
                                                  It depends who it is
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                                                  • JANET R 328390
                                                    It depends entirely on the circumstances. I would be very cautious ........ I would just thank them for the flowers and see what happens............ I love roses.......
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                                                    • Greg B 520364
                                                      Let me assure you if a bloke sent me red roses, get would get them back real quick
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                                                      • Cherryl T
                                                        Depends entirely on the person. If I wasn't interested I would not accept them. If they wouldn't take them back I would bin them and make sure he knew I don't want anything to do with him.
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                                                        • Jenny L 591463
                                                          I guess that is up to you and if you are interested in the person who sent them. I love roses and we grow our own so no one needs to send me any. However it is exciting and if you truely like the person call ( if you can.) Say Thank you for the roses and see what happens next. They may ask you out on a date, dinner, or a movie, or some thing just as romantic. A picnic in a park. Obviously some one is interested in you, either enjoy their company or let them down gently. I have met a few older women who are fine on their own and don't want the physical side of a relationship so they choose to stay single. It's okay to have men friends with no pressure on a physical realationship as some just enjoy their company and the odd date or two. Have fun deciding.
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                                                          • Val B 69099
                                                            It would depend on the person
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                                                            • nina m 212027
                                                              love roses i would except them all depends on who sent them would i thank
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                                                              • TERRIE K
                                                                I agree with Doreen A.
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                                                                • Ann H 652541
                                                                  I would wonder why there were so many. I always like to have one rose from one heart to another as red as the heart itself from me to you admiration and thinking of you for any reason and remembering what you are like. I do not believe you need a dozen roses but one real rose to give to your most loved one.
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                                                                  • Michele W 394946
                                                                    What's the reason for the specific amount of MORE than a dozen?
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                                                                    • Ali L NZ
                                                                      I agree with Roslyn. Lovely thought and my choice what happens next
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                                                                      • Joy L 68767
                                                                        depends if I like them to, but I grow my own roses and pick them when I want to.
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                                                                        • Kay S 473447
                                                                          I would accept the roses and gracefully decline any other advances
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                                                                          • Carol S 657195
                                                                            I'd accept them just before I died from shock. They could accompany me to the funeral home!
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                                                                            • Beverley S 383001
                                                                              Clever comment Carol. ha ha......
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                                                                          • Stephen F 84899
                                                                            Yes I would accept.
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                                                                            • Roslyn A
                                                                              I would love some roses! Anybody can send them. What happens next is my choice.
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                                                                              • roger l 315504
                                                                                Made that mistake very early in our relationship, Sent roses and copped it big time. Didn't know that she suffered was allergic to pollens
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                                                                                • Julie K 348980
                                                                                  I would accept with appreciation the gift as just that with no hidden expectations from the sender.
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                                                                                  • Christina D
                                                                                    If you accept the roses you accept the advances
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                                                                                    • JANET R 328390
                                                                                      I definitely don't agree Christina. I think Doreen is right.....
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                                                                                  • Carolyn K 714554
                                                                                    As I do not know who sent them I will accept them. I no it was not my husband as he thinks it is a wast of money.
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                                                                                    • Maree B 85308
                                                                                      So this reminds me of a joke I know, 2 women were chatting over the fence on a Friday afternoon, when 1 spotted her husband walking down the road carrying flowers. She said to her friend , oh no, you know what that means, another weekend spent on my back. Her friend replied, what, don't you own a vase !!!! Beware of vases bearing gifts
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                                                                                      • JANET R 328390
                                                                                        Haha ..... Love it Maree.....
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                                                                                      • mary c
                                                                                        More than a grain of truth??
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                                                                                    • Gwynneth B
                                                                                      I dont know either depend where it came from
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                                                                                      • IdentifyAs
                                                                                        I don't know. I'd be carted off in an ambulance from collapse because anyone sent me something.
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                                                                                        • mary c
                                                                                          with some hot paramedics?!
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                                                                                        • IdentifyAsmary c
                                                                                          My luck they would only be hot temperature wise
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                                                                                        • mary cIdentifyAs
                                                                                          haha that would be typical!
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                                                                                      • Morenita
                                                                                        I’m planning on sending my surgeon’s office roses as a thank you so much for my results!
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                                                                                        • Igor A
                                                                                          Refuse or accept the advances, but do not be dishonest. Or else you deserve the same.
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                                                                                          • Mariaj
                                                                                            I’d be gobsmacked but delighted all the same haha
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                                                                                            • AlanH CENTRAL VIC
                                                                                              MY WIFE AND I HAVE A BEAUTIFIL FLOWER GARDEN OF OUR OWN AND NEVER HAVE FLOWERS SENT TO US
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                                                                                              • Carmel C 103964
                                                                                                Refuse - I'm allergic to most flowers and am happy with my current partner
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                                                                                                • Lachelle B
                                                                                                  Not keen on flowers. A decent Scotch on the other hand....
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                                                                                                  • APB
                                                                                                    That's my girl...
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                                                                                                  • Lachelle BAPB
                                                                                                    A decent Scotch or a decent Scot, I'm not fussy lol.
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                                                                                                  • APBLachelle B
                                                                                                    Tease
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                                                                                                • SueM2
                                                                                                  At my age, I'd be grateful for such a lovely gesture!
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                                                                                                  • Tupulua S
                                                                                                    " Roses " Lucky You., What happen to the bottle of wine ?. Smell the Roses and drink the wine, and feel the warmth of the Sun everyday, and be thankful that we are alive.
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                                                                                                    • kristian s 513441
                                                                                                      I like chocolate candy better than dozen roses.
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                                                                                                      • Claude H
                                                                                                        THE ROSES ARE ONLY TEMORARY & SO MIGHT BE THE RELATIONSHIP
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                                                                                                        • Hamzah S
                                                                                                          I prefer chocolates.
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                                                                                                          • Sheree T
                                                                                                            Unless they are sent to me by my husband I would not accept them.
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                                                                                                            • PETER M 134659
                                                                                                              ENOUGH SAID
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                                                                                                              • Sandra C 12043
                                                                                                                Make up your own mind. We can't make it up for you.
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                                                                                                                • Edward S 497347
                                                                                                                  Depends on whether you know the person and whether you want to advance to a possible relationship or date with that person or not. In addition to that, for many years females considered having a "Secret Admirer" to be romantic, however these days because of the world we live in and the number of dangerous people out there, I would accept the roses and report it to the police for investigation because if they are from a crazy person / stalker and you refuse to accept the delivery and that person sees you rejecting the delivery it would anger them more. However, if the person sees you accepting them, he / she might take action to move to the next level
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                                                                                                                  • Ghostgirl1971
                                                                                                                    What a waste of money.
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                                                                                                                    • Jim B 386831
                                                                                                                      Depends on the person
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                                                                                                                      • Shirley H 391879
                                                                                                                        Never been given a dozen roses, never mind red ones
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                                                                                                                        • BLACK LIVES MATTER
                                                                                                                          I am definitely not the roses type; I would get in contact with the police.
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                                                                                                                          • APB
                                                                                                                            There are only nine there...wait for the other three
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                                                                                                                            • Chris A 117384
                                                                                                                              You should call the Police as it is against all PC laws
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                                                                                                                              • Linda C
                                                                                                                                The first flowers I ever received were from my boyfriend at the time. They were a lovely pink and I think there were a dozen. Long time ago now. I have received many flowers over the years but I prefer a mixed bouquet to just roses or any other singular flower variety. Just because someone has sent you flowers does not necessarily mean anything. If he/she wished to he/she could ask you out and then you can say yes or no. If you do not wish to pursue it further then of course you can refuse.
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                                                                                                                                • Rhonda D 522615
                                                                                                                                  If I weren't married, I would accept the flowers and a date. Why not? Might be the one!
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